I'm prepared for dating?

I´m prepared for dating

"There's a lot of pressure to date. And there are too many pretty boys." - Whitney.

"Some girls are very pushy and it's hard to say no. But if I ask permission to my parents, I know what will be the answer." - Philip. .

DESIRE to be with someone special --- and especially --- What do you think can be very strong even when very young. Phrases like this are common to be heard: "I started to feel pressure to date when he was 11 years." "In school, you think it is not a normal person if you're not dating someone" --- no matter who!

And you? Are you prepared for dating? To know the answer, first we need to consider a more basic question:

What is "dating"?

Mark your answers to the following questions:

• You go out regularly with a person of the opposite sex. Are you dating? Yes ( ) No ( )

• You and someone of the opposite sex like each other. Exchange text messages or talk on the phone many times a day. Are you dating? Yes ( ) No ( )

• Whenever you're with friends, it is close to the same person of the opposite sex. Are you dating? Yes ( ) No ( )

It is likely that it was not difficult to answer the first question, but must have thought a bit before answering the other. What exactly is dating? When you participate in social activities in which your romantic interest is concentrated in one person and that person in you, in fact, this is dating. Thus, the answer to all the above questions is yes. By phone or in person so declared or secret, if you and someone of the opposite sex express mutual love interest, and communicate regularly, you are dating. Are you ready for dating? The consideration of three questions will help you figure it out.

Why do you want to date?

In many cultures, dating is viewed as an acceptable way for two people know each other better.But dating should be a worthy goal --- helping a young man and a woman to decide whether to marry.
It is true that some of his friends maybe do not view dating as something serious. May be they just like being with a special friend of the opposite sex without any intention of marrying. Some might see this friend as nothing more than a trophy or an accessory with which you want to be seen in public to increase their self-esteem. But these superficial relationships usually last bit."Many young people end up dating one or two weeks," says a young woman named Rita. "They see relationships as a passenger --- which somehow prepare them more for divorce than for marriage."
Of course when you dating someone, you mess with her feelings. So make sure that their intentions are worthy. Think: I wish someone play with your feelings as a child's toy that takes a while and soon after it is thrown away? A young woman named Geisa says: "Sometimes I like to believe that dating is just a fun, but it is not no fun when a person is taking the relationship seriously and some not."